About love

All the stories talk about a guy seen a girl and fall in love. He tries so hard to get that love. He meant to keep it for whole his life. But I wonder why they can not? , why they break up? why they break up each others heart ?.

Different stories end in different ways. It's either the girl fault or the man fault. Either, way it ends. where is the happy part in fall in love , when we cannot keep it.

It wasn't the thing in my mind actually . What am I thinking is it the man responsibility to find love? , or what should we say give love or show the love to the girl.  After finding it keeping it is also for the man job.

A girl can love  so many times. when life goes on she forgets about the true love or fake love or about just love. After some time, she looks for the caring one who will actually do anything to keep her.

So what happen to that first love or the boy who saw her first and taught  her about love. What happened between them. Is it the girl fault or the boys? Is it the fault of both of them?

They say true love  or what we called perfect love ends because they stop fighting for love and they start fighting for life forgetting love.

Even they say if the boy treats the girl the way he treated her first days of their relationship, their love gonna last forever.

First thing is , we fall love and we want to keep it forever. right!
We know all these techniques also , like treat the girl the way you treated at first , and fight for love and goes on.
but why we neglect those?   why we forget that?  Make our own life miserable by our self?