Eid fun

We office friends planed to go for eid holiday. After so much struggles we finally came to Eydhafushi.
In our groupe we have7 girls. but for a very reasonable reason 1couldn't come with us.
Today is the last and 5th day here in eydhafushoi . So far i loved it in here. it was so fun. Inside and Out side of the room was also fun.
the beach and sea is so nearby, and we went for swimming like each day.
The Eid fun and the color's flying around was nice and fun .
i have instagramed most of the actions. it was fun .
different type of 6 grl nd ayaana baby had lots n lots of fun.
thanks to ppl of . . . .
Eid mubarak to all.

The very morning

http://instagr.am/p/REMrwWy-gm/

Transport sysytem

This knowlege also i got from the lcature i attended on 27th ..... given by  Suze .. . ..

THEY SAY " What you ride shows who you are"
THe profesor said..
Our male'  looks like a mess.
The campus which ( no vehicle allowed)( Singapore airport , bigger then male' i guess)  keep the male' in the midle of it.
When you think of that  yes, it is true.
Male is a mess and we dont need these many cars and moto bikes.
Even i do also have one.... shame huh.
Walking for 5 mins is big deal for maldivian.
Waiting for 3 mins for a buss is big big pro.
 Lets think when there is no more oil , whaht happens,
Like engenieers lets luk out side the box.

what we can do :
No vehicle zones.
make our little maldives as a pradise .
not difficult to do.
betery vehicles.
Fins, parking fees...etc.
Get a cash amount , selling you moto. ( need to dump what we have of we gonna reduce: export to secound hand buyer ex:singapore)
Plate numbers, keep a limite.  give the number to lottery winer.
I thin Electric Metro can be used.

Just thoughts

the Big elephannt in the room

the other day i attended the lacture by  . . . .     on enegy efficency and renevabe.. blaaas

Let me give you a summary according to my understanding.


The big elephant in the room :  some thing ppl does not want to talk about ..
We all know increase in the price of oil  leads to increase in price of food , transport , electricity  ( over all increase in cost of living)
The inflation goes up ..

all knows fact , but no body wanna do any thing about it.
All talks and no actual afford to decrease the use of oil.

We all know that Oil supply isn't gonnna increase in future , but Our demand for oil is increasing ,
Can any one imaging what will happen then
What will happen after 2030, or before that when oil exaction  keep on decresing and it stays in on point.

The need for electricity or transport using oil is incresing in maldives.
The plazma TV's and AC's and other high five stuffs in our house keep on increasing which in term increasing our electric use.

When are we gonna realise this is it. We have no oil left to produce electriccity . the experts knows that and are trying to do something about it.
But as the end users , we have to know that.

I dont wanna be the person who realised it when there is no time, The example she have given was
a bactria in a jar . . . growth rate 1 per min.  its half way full at 11:59 , full at 12;00noon.

what a change ...?

I spend hrs reading blogs and finally decided to read my own blog. The  past , back in 2008.
What a lady i was . . .
So much excitements, so much joy . . .
Most of the writing was a complain or some thing going bad or a sad story , But the way i wrote it , WoW . exciting ...
I am not expert or any thing  . .. but i heard  people say " the writing tell some thing about the writer"
I was different back them . Over emotional , Over joy , Over exciting  . . .Totally different grl.
I read my First poet type of writing which i wrote because my Best frnd/ roommate . We had a fight and the not talking thing went way too long.
I still remember that when started talking our relationship was far more firm and Strong . Still it is.. Even thought we are in 2 continental.. She does not show her feelings much , but i know we are still close frnds.

now am thinking . .. . . .
whether to bring that grl back o stay the way i am now, ( Serious, always responsible on shoulder, thinking too hard about the impact of an action , damn. . to tell you the truth now i am afraid , dont know why and what am afraid of but yea... sure am )

Obsessed .

Now a day's my mind is filled with a thought which i can't share here.
It is driving me crazy .
Ever thing  i think of doing ends up one point, from there no i can't do this until i get this done.
The funny part doing that is not in my hands.  Somebody else have to do that .
After that i get a chance to carry on , or stuffs i plan to do.

I am just living the day to day life like " Yes!! lets carry on , Today might be a lucky day o Might end up in same old spot"

Even though things get stuck , life does not stops. Times goes on followed by days and weeks and months , so does life.

Thinking does not even give a different choice o opinions, Thinking does not even change the fact. but it gives you headache and take away your smile . Some cases thinking gives you a solution , but this time  thinking is not helping at all .

If only am in the wheel ( hungaani) of this  car or vessel  which i am planing to ride. 

You know what i need . . . .

I need a private place or Conner to keep my sewing stuffs  , and
to design dress and
 to bring some of the my amazing ideas  to  a paper, or on cloths ...
 Lets say a Art room. Am not much an artist but i got my own creativity  and skills . I mite be bad at Drawings but my mind is full of ideas.
Mostly fashion things , Dress , Shoes and Bags.

Help me GOD to fulfill this dream .

A cockroach

I saw a cockroach in my room , i was like what .. what is it doing here ? Then i thought of ignoring it. After some time I don't see it. Then i thought may be i don't care it will not bother me. . . 

So i switch off lights and was facebooking, after some time felt some thin on my hand. . . Damn i got sacred and put on the light back.  I couldn't see it, so gain i started doing what i was doing . 

After some time, it was flying in the room.  Set on my head twice, i got so scared and Stayed on my went at the Conner. It was freely flying at doing what ever it wanted to do.

 i watched it for several minuets and thought i have to get rid of this thing.(last night , when i went to my frnds house,there was one in her room, her mom went with a slipper to the room ant with in a secount she came with a dead cockroach- i can do this - huh)  If not i can't even sleep tonight. Well, i  took a book  and watched it for some time, when it set in wall, i through the book so hard . it felt with the book.  wasn't sure what happened to it. I saw its print on the wall.  then i new some thing happened to it. i took the book, it was  dead , dead. The book have done its work. but i didn't wasn't to kill it, i just wanted to break a wing so it can't fly.

I am sorry Cockroach's , Pls don't come to my room with a gang. 

I heard ppl say that of you kill one flying one, so many will come and give you a hard time. Pls don't come Cockroach's.

HAPPY EiD

EiD MuBaRaK to all the reader . . .

Ramazan went well , Insha Allah.

"Alhamen heyo gothugai ramazan a fahugai ves vaguthu tha heydha kurumuge thaufeegu alhamenna dhevvaashi, ya Allah"

So far Eid is also going fine, I planed to go to our of Male' but that plan didn't workout. So now am staying home and making some new dress. I made some v nice dresses.  Hopefully i will post pics in here :  http://kool-ideas.blogspot.com/

And yea i am still Fasting , the 6 sunna roadha after ramazaan as u all know.

Thnk you guys for visiting .

Things i have/like/want to do ?

1- Sewing more dress - need to change my wardrobe totally, can't buy ready made, so expensive.
2- Reading -Need to increase reading stories or magazine. I love reading Magazine then story books, but we don't get them easily in here.
3- writing  - Mostly blog.
4- Learn some accounting advance stuffs - Which was not in our study -specifically normally used  accounting software.
5-Some small works I planed on doing at Office and Home, but Couldn't do for a long long time.
Etc

shopping in male' grrrrr

Shopping in male' is so grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr....
Shops are packed and things are v expensive.
Non of the goods are worth buying in the price they are sold. Damn how do these ppl give a price to a product.
Mostly cosmetics and cloths , so expensive.
Cloths we bought from Indian markets at cheap rate are better then those stuffs we get in Male'.
Some are so out of fashion. Some are not in a  good condition to buy , but the prices.. OMG. . Dont say it.
I haven't bought any dress from these shops in past 1 year. Its better to buy cloth material and make a dress for my myself.
Like 3 years ago you wont find a nice shoe in Male' but now they have nice one but the price ... damn .. .
Y so expensive . seriously  . . :(
Another thing is , even though they have so old stocks , they don't sell on sale. Even though there is a sale they are not worth buying in term of Price and quality ... ... ...
Just GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
I used to love shopping, when i was in Delhi , even the window shopping ... wow .. . !!! Loved all that .
I used to wear some thin new in each week or day.
I remember for an exam ( when our house was near a market (kamla nagar market)  , i bought new dress for each day. After exam on my way back to home i bought a top o dress for the next day paper.
Those days i loved shopping , Things were worth buying . Even it does not fit you , o don't like it , u wont  regret cos they are not so expensive.
There also branded stuffs were expensive, but worthy.
Here in male' NOT BRANDED but EXPENSIVE , so NOT WORTHY.

                                                          An idle shop

A shop in Male'

Theft

Saturday night  azza, mamsha , me and my bf went for swimming. We put all our  (4) phones in the motorbike Ubox and hid the key under a stone. but when we came out of sea, key and motorbike was gone.Some body tool it.
( am writing this after 3months, so don't remember much)
We got so scared, all the phones and bike it self is stolen. We went to near by police station , we wanted to file a complain but they told us to come with all the documents. ( That was so unacceptable- they could have filed the damn complain , and give the information about the motor bike to the traffic police on that mins, but No they wanted to do it like their lazy way)  Any way we did filed a complain after a hr.
All our family members started looking for the bike. But no sign of it that day. Boo was working so hard to find it by walk.  I couldn't bear it , and i just stayed in my room crying and thinking about it.
2nd day went no sign of it, Police had no news of it.
On the 3rd day around 7 , My cousin found it inside the ADK hospital.
We all were v happy...
Even at that time police came so late and they noted all the details  and verified with all the documents i ahd and gave the bike to us. ( the Guard bro told it was there like for 3 days. may be tha person took all the phones and kept it there. Bike even had some damages at right side)
After a week police called and asked weather we found it o not , and all sort of unnecessary questions, Then told me to go there file a complain saying that i found it.  What the heck. Police was there when i took it, they verified all the documents, then what the heck were they talking about.
From that i got to know that they can't find our phone. I should just forget about them. 

Club Maldives cup 2012 (MHE)

On 20th we played our first match against Maldivian. At first we got the lead and but at the end we lost by 3-1.  In that lot of lessons learned and lot happened. You can imaging loosing from the 1st match after having a lead. lot of fingers are pointed out, lot of ppls were blamed. After that Match work was gone. Felt like all those works we put in to practice has gone wast.
Any way we had lot of team meetings and  lot of work by team members the team got the courage and new sprite to win the next match .
On 25th we played agianst Wataniyya , won by 1-0. Everyone had the pleasure of playing in that game. we got a very sweet win.
Any way on 28th we were going to play against Immigration , the best team . We had a v good team sprite. We wanted to win that match. As a result  at the end of 1st half match score was 1-1. But in the second half our team lost it , They scored 5 goals and we lost by 6-1.
That was the end of club Maldives Cup for us MHE.  

Learn from the Experience.

I have been waiting to write this for a long time. 


On 2nd to 4th July , I  attended a workshop named Woman and Energy by SAARC organization at Bados island resort. In that  workshop 7  country members participate. It went successful, leaned a lot  and enjoyed lot 2.
On 2nd day ,Ms.Joelly Murphy from USAID/RESET gave an inspiring speech for woman. 

Important Lessons I  (she) learned along the way

• “Gather” loyal mentors, allies, & women friends 
• Continually build your own skills (for me: analysis, crisp writing, presentations with clear messages & negotiation)
• Grasp the key technical aspects of the subject  & get over not being an engineer (or not the “right” kind of engineer)
• Always volunteer to do the first draft & always do more “homework” than the other guy
• Sex harassment: be alert, learn to deflect it early & handle it without creating an enemy
• Build up a savings account that would keep you solvent for 6 months if you have to quit or get fired.
• Develop some “coping” techniques that work for you.
• Use surprise, creativity and flexibility to your advantage.

Some Particular Techniques that can increase one’s Power & Voice  -- subject to cultural issues, of course

         •Dress (“Power is in the shoulders, honey, not the hips.”)
•Eye contact
•Personal space
•Firm handshake
•Learning to get over the fear of speaking in public
•Learning to project your voice, your authority, your message •Speaking with confidence in a strong voice 
•“Power Posturing” (pre-meeting, during meeting) to change your own feelings of self confidence and others’ perceptions and reactions to you. 

 

I know its long , but v useful information. 

 

futsal

Like 5 months ago i didn't know any thing about futsal. I knew football and 6th side football and beach football. But no idea about futsal. I like football and like to play it v much.
Any way at that time my friend asked me whether i would play in Inter Office futsel, and to their Team , i said yes.  At that time i was new to office like 4 months new. so i thought it will be a great opportunity to know them and  play what i like to play.
I had very little experience in playing foot ball match , and futsel all new, but i was v friendly with the ball. i knew how to play it. As a team we need practice, so  we did 1 practice before the match .
In the match when i was in the ground playing opposite team scored a goal. That was a shock to me and demotivating for me. Some how i even blame my self for that goal.
Funny thing was  goal keeper was telling me mark  that person, i had no idea what she was telling me to do . . :) at the end of the match she told me what that mean.
Even thought that happened in the match we went to final and we won. It was v nice feeling of winning.

The main thing i wanna say is that , now in this May i will be playing Club Maldives cup. Isnt it great ...? I have improved hell a lot by this time. The only problem is taking a strong shot, as i am small and my leg is week it is very hard to take a strong long shot. but i will work on that Insha Allah.