Wednesday, December 10, 2008

“It is easier to forgive an enemy than a friend”


It’s a coincidence that I saw this statement today. (In a situation like this) After seen this I began to wonder whether it’s true or not.

Well if we consider a friend - a friend mean who understands you and who care U.I got to know different type of friendship when I was studying philosophy.

It says that there are 3 type of friendship.

1-Friendship for Utility: Mean man do not love there friends for what they are in themselves, but for the benefit a man get. Eg: business partners.

2-Friendship of pleasure: we are friend to these people for the pleasure we get from them, being with them. Like college friends.

3-Friendship at the level of character: This is where the true friendship comes under. Here a friend care about another, Love one another, when one friend get hurt another one gets hurt, and think and wish for the well being of another friend where they are far, or near to each other.

LOL , Some studying, unnecessary material……… right!!!!!!!!!

In third case of friendship, what I think is, it would be easier to forgive another friend, may be it wont…………aaah , I also don’t know am also confused. May be it depend of the situation… right!!!!!!!!

Any way for an enemy, obviously it would be easy to forgive, because they are not attached to us, from the things they do, we don’t get hurt. ( lakunu hithuga nethiyya faseha vaane e nun ,forgive kuran) Any way that’s what I think …………

For me I forgive every one, whether it’s a friend or an enemy. “ok” at first I may be angry but after some times it all goes away, and my heart become as clean for that person. As human being we should forgive others… right!!!!!!!!


2 comments:

.mini said...

its good to know the types of friends, and understand them and not get hurt along the way
but forgiving everyone? can you really do that? either you've got a huuge heart or nobody has betrayed you yet
but its good too.. forgiving is good..

R.K.Wawilly said...

well i don't know, i just can't keep those things in heart.I have faced many type of situation. Betray,Hatred and misunderstanding ..etc. BUT after some days it goes away.(the duration depends on the situation..LOL) "OK" the another time when i see her/him i do talk as normal person.